When I was a little girl, my grandmother would come to visit from California and she would tell me how pretty I was. Then she would smile and ask if I had a boyfriend yet. She would tell me I’d have a boys lining up for me when I was older. We have come a long way since her generation’s view of gender roles. But what I think many people fail to see is that the underpinnings of that life, those expectations, still permeate our world today…

Why not share some of the delightful messages I’ve gotten from the men that my grandmother assured me would line up to date me?

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